Backpage was shut down in a sex trafficking probe.

Alternative Websites to BackPage

Assuming you men are looking for women, (and let’s face it, if we are straight, we usually are) there are many places you can suit your deviant desires to tickle your fancy.  There is no shortage of places where you can find sexual partners.

In the past, I put up this contribution to the website, and today I’ll elaborate on why it’s a good thing for you guys to check out – The Five Best Adult Dating Sites & Apps Where Hook Ups Occur.

You see, there do exist websites where women sign up to simply meet men for sexual encounters.  If you don’t believe me, join up at Fling.com.  You’ll have messages to you within days if you set up your profile properly.  These types of websites are becoming popular, much like Tinder and Bumble rose up in the swipe app era.  Check them out, you will be pleasantly surprised.

While I may be biased, being a serial blogger and dater, I’m sticking to my guns and using those sites.  However, it’s worth sharing a blog post I read on IncredibleLab that highlighted 9 other alternatives to Backpage.

9 Sites Like BackPage.com

#1:  Craigslist.com

The first one we all know about, it’s no secret.  They have classified ads and personal encounters groups alike.  You may find some weirdos, however.

#2:  Kijiji

I hadn’t heard of this website, which apparently is popular among Canadians.  It’s a classified site that allows people to post things – anything.  Hockey, beer, and sex, anyone?

#3:  OLX

Yet another one I hadn’t heard of before.  People can buy, sell, and apparently offer themselves up for dating.  I’m definitely going to dig into this one.

#4:  GEEBO

Once again, I’m shocked that this one is suggested, as I hadn’t heard about it prior.  Another classified type site with a large personals section.

#5:  LocalFind

I’d heard of this one.  It’s a small site, but some people swear by it and cite that it has a loyal following, making the people much more sincere in their desires.

#6:  ClassifiedAds

Looks just like Craigslist.  Big classified site where you can find anything.

#7:  KRRB

This one claims 175,000 users.  I haven’t checked it out yet, but apparently it’s growing.

#8:  Plenty of Fish

You’ve most likely heard of this one.  It’s massive, and many people use it.  I didn’t have a ton of success on it, but hey, maybe you will.

#9:  Adult Friend Finder

Finally, the article references a site that I can vibe with.  Adult friend finder, or “AFF” as people call it commonly, is another adult dating themed site.  Hook ups, galore.

Of course, here is my personal list of meet and fuck sites.  Feel free to enjoy it, pass it along, and get busy.

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That said, you only have one shot to make a first impression with women you meet online, and today I’m opening up my vault of Tinder openers so you can have the ultimate hack – one liners that are geared towards getting a response!  You can really use these in any message exchanging format, but I wrote this with the Tinder App in mind.

Just copy these Tinder Openers – they are tried and tested.  Some things in life are just better done when a formula is followed, so why re-invent the wheel?

If you are looking to see just how easy it can be to get women to reply to you, use this list of the best tinder openers, then come back here and thank me later with a comment.

The Best Tinder Openers for Responses

To start off, here is a solid Tinder opener you can use that will encourage women to flirt back at you.  Again, this is a tried and tested message you can open with.

Opener #1:  The “expert opener”

Hey (insert name) I need your advice on something important….

This opening statement works like a charm because what girl won’t naturally be intrigued?  It’s a mind fuck of sort, where they will scratch their head and think long and hard about how to reply.

With this sort of Tinder opener, women will generally let their guard down and have curiosity about what could you possibly be asking her advice for.

Just sit back and wait for it.  It’ll work wonders.

Replying to This Tinder Opener

So you lobbed out the message, and she replied.  Maybe it was witty, maybe it was a one liner simply asking what you wanted advice on.

It’s now on YOU to reply with something witty.

Response #1:

“Okay, there is this (insert eye color) attractive girl who is really into me, and we’re trying to figure out a first date.  She is a classy girl and seems sophisticated, but I’m trying to figure out if we should go to fancy restaurant right from the get go, or just sort of go with a sports bar / lounge since I know she likes sports as well.  What do you think?”

She will reply and suggest one or the other, and you will strike here!

Response #2: 

Great, what’s your number so we can plan that out?

Boom, there you have it.  An easy opening line you can use at Tinder.  This obtained a phone number without much back and forth, and let’s face it, uncomfortable, boring “how are you today” type messages that nobody really sends with any care anyway.

Provoking thoughts and catching women off guard is one of the best ways to get them to open up to you, and this templated system does just that.

Reasons Why This Works So Well

#1:  You compliment her.  (Always do this, and do so repeatedly.)

#2: You paid attention to her.  (You read her profile enough to know her interests.  Refer to them in your message.)

#3:  You got her buy in and decision on a date.  (She selected one of the two, didn’t she?)

So with compliments abundant, and a first date idea all set to be mapped out, what do you have to lose?  This generates so many responses, it’s almost unfair.

Of course, I use these on many dating sites for adults as well, but they aren’t as needed there because, you know, the women are pretty horny as is.  This type of message works on sites like Plenty of Fish.

Another Example of an Opening Message on Tinder

Opener #2:  Flirting for the Win

Hopefully you’ve put in some solid time and achieved good results with the first formula, but if you are looking to expand into other openers, the Flirting formula is another solid one that can’t be ignored.

You are going to use what I call the “TRIPLE C” approach.  This encompasses the following:

• Commonality
• Complimenting
• Challenging

Steps to Execute this Formula:

1. Scan her profile to look for something either written or pictured that would be a commonality.
2. Compliment her on the commonality.
3. Come up with a challenge that goes hand in hand with the commonality and the compliment.

Easy enough?

Let’s walk through an example of this playing out.

So let’s say she’s into cooking and CrossFit.  People can relate to both of those, I assume?

Let’s say you are into both of those, for simplicity sake.

You could kick off with “Hey, which cross fit do you go to?  That’s my jam!”

It’s open ended, which is key here.  Of course, you want to add some spice to it so you could go in heavier and be like:

“I would love to see those toned arms do the xxx challenge at the local CrossFit.  I bet you can’t do better than me, but you look amazing.”

What you just did there was combine the three C’s.  #BOOM.

Watch your responses come back in droves after doing that.

When you apply these techniques into your Tinder follow up game, you’ll see a lot more personality come through your messages, and of course, the return messages you receive.

Good luck, and happy hunting!

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Tell that to Rickie Fowler, Jordan Spieth, Smylie Kaufman, and Justin Thomas.  All of these accomplished (especially Spieth, arguably the best golfer on tour right now) PGA tour golfers are living the high life, even on their down time between tournaments.  Case in point, their recent “Spring Break” trip to Baker’s Bay.

#SB2K17

Just look up that hash tag and witness all of the fun.  Today I dive in to the story of how they got there, and why they had so much fun.

The PGA Golf Spring Break Trip to Baker’s Bay Bahamas

Baker’s Bay may not sound like much to you, but to the ultra rich celebrities, it’s really a place that is known as that secret vacation spot.  Ben Affleck, Cindy Crawford, Elle MacPherson, Tom Brady, and even the legendary Michael Jordan all frequent Baker’s Bay.  Fowler owns one of the residences there, and there are fewer than 300.

Immediately after the Master’s, the foursome took off for Baker’s Bay for a week of partying.  To say it was wild is an understatement.  The stuff seen on public social media was off the charts, so I can only be left curious to what they didn’t show us.

Fowler put the entire ordeal on snap chat.  Today, I provide you with some of the awesome highlights.

Clearly, it’s good to be young and consistent off the tee!

#1:  These boys don’t always take golf seriously.

One observer, named Nathan Hubbard, who posted a great recap of this entire ordeal here, noted that the crew played golf in carts, shirtless, and blaring music.   Minus the shirtless part, that’s a standard round for me, but one that these guys don’t get to enjoy too often at the stuffy clubs they have to compete at.

Side Note:  I found this story on many news sites.  NONE had the depth of Nathan’s.  None.  Not even close.

Side Note 2:  Nathan is a beast himself.  Former CEO of Ticketmaster.  Well played.

#2:  They Get Hammered

First off, they are on break, and they should be hammered.  They have every right to.  But second, this course caters to this debauchery.  There is a bar called the Sip Sip.  Need I say more?

Okay, I will.  They do shots of Casamigos tequila (which I love, but you’d think they would get Don Julio Real?)

Read Also: Rickie Fowler’s Girlfriend 

#3:  They Got Their Own SnapChat Filter

This is perhaps the most impressive part of the entire ordeal.  Snapchat made them their own filter.  Slow clap, guys.  No, fuck it.  HUGE APPLAUSE.

These guys are the epitome of millennials living large and enjoying it.  Good for them, they entirely deserve it.  Who do you think hooked up the most?

Here are a few clips from this amazing Bro-Fest.

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If you haven’t already started using adult hook up sites, you are missing out a whole new world of opportunity out there. So let me help you convince on why you should use adult hook up sites starting today.

Hook Up Sites are as Easy as ABC to Use

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Find that Perfect Match

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Hook up sites are without any doubt the best place you can go for casual sex tonight.  Sure, you will still need some good old fashion game, and you probably should look nice when you meet your date, but let’s face it, when two people are in the mood, there is just no stopping them.

So stop wondering what will come out of it and just head over to the internet and start your search to find the best hook up sites with the most wonderful adult singles.  Here is my top five list.  Use it.  Enjoy it.  Then, please come back here and leave a comment about your experience.

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